Sex sex sex. where do i even begin haha jp
its all about the right time. with the right person....right choice. ask yourself, "will i regret doing this later?"
it's sad to know that there are more girls who are virgins than guys who are virgins (or at least that's the way i feel). is it even possible to find a guy who's a virgin to marry? (that used to my mentality but not anymore.) when you find the right person, does it matter if he is still a virgin or not?
So many random scattered ideas are bouncing around in my head, so the following will just be one idea jumping to the next. (in no particular order)
1. organism is like having your soul pulled out of you and re-embed in you after. organism is like you've finished the SAT that you've been studying for months for and got an 2400 right after. organism is like having chocolate melt on your tongue and uplifting your whole body.
2. sex is addicting, but you don't want to get hooked onto it. sex is a drug.
3. release each breath of freedom. sex can bring your emotions out as you become a part of the intense sexual realm, the more you are into it the greater the emotions are and the better it feels. with each breath, you allow each emotions to flow out and through your body (from the very top of strand of hair to the last skin cell on your foot). your body starts to ache (in a good way), you begin to struggle with each movement in the moment, you want to release more and more emotions, during this state you will rise to your fullest and everything feels good.
4. some say sex feels better when you don't use a condom. does it feel better when you find out you missed your period?
5. for those who haven't had sex yet, you never know what you're missing out on unless you've gone through it.
6. in human development family studies class, teacher was talking about when you rub a dog's stomach, you feel so happy and they flip over and show you their genitals. "that's the real way to show someone you trust them, right?" professor said. do we always trust the one that we have sex with?
7. as you break each level in the baseball field (first base, 2nd, 3rd and home run). does the level(s) underneath the one you've gone to feel less good? if you've touched all bases, does holding hands still make your heart beat faster?
8. Sex. Is this what i really need? Going through life never experiencing it is like never going on a roller coaster to experience the rush, but everyone describes the rush differently to someone who has never been on a roller coaster.
the question arises, “do i really want to feel the rush?” People that never experienced it just live normally with their lives, they don't need such “rush”, but for those who have exposure to it, they tend to know more and might want it more.
CAUTION: I'm not telling you to have sex! just saying what i think about sex in general. it's a topic that is not widely talked about amongst asians. we (or at least I, myself) never got "the talk" from my parents. if i was still in china, i would have learned about sex education much later.
DO it with someone you love or someone who you think it's worth give your body to. Think about it this way, it's not like a guy's thing changes after doing it with a lot of girls. but that's not true vice versa.
Find the right partner.
Find the right partner.
FIND THE RIGHT PARTNER. Having the right partner for sexual activity is like going with someone you trust to lead you out of a nebulous forest. Full of trees that block the sunlight, not allowing for those to seeing beyond that realm that your in. No sense of direction to guide you through the obsolete dense forest, no where you turn you can get out, that is why you need to find the right partner. Some you can believe, trust, and love.
WITH OUT THESE REQUIREMENTS, SEX WILL NOT FEEL AS SATISFYING.
Don't do anything you'll regret later in life because life isn't reversible. When you want to change the past, it's already too late.
Appreciate your body because in the end, it is your body. Nobody else's. Your's. Take care of it. no money or anything in this world can trade for the value of good health.
-A
